Written June17, 2012
It is close to sundown, that perfect part of the day when sitting out on the patio, drink in hand, as the temperature concedes to a break and all can seem right in the world for at least a little bit.
It's been a long day. Not because we are approaching the summer solstice but because of the depth of complication that's been felt. I have worked off and on all day to complete the laundry, a simple task that should be taxing, but for me it is. Each year the simple tasks of life become less easy for me. I did a bit of shopping yesterday at three different stores, which for the average person would have been no trouble at all. However, because of those two hours of walking, standing, and carrying, my body is alive with pain. This is what comes with the diagnosis of fibromyalgia. Couple that with my other health issues - migraines, allergies, interstitial cystitis, IBS, PTSD, and depression - and there are days when simply functioning is near impossible.
There are days when I am beyond frustrated. I feel so much pain that I move at a pace even a senior citizen would consider slow. On really bad days, I am slowed not only physically but mentally as well. Those are the days when the depression and/or the PTSD have reared their ugly heads. (I am thankful to the Bloggess for her "Depression Lies" campaign - there are times when it's hard to remember that simple truth.) The fibromyalgia can make bad days worse as well with its "fibro fog". Those are days when one can't be certain that 2+2 is such an easy equation.
Somehow, though, I muddle through. I have survived much longer than I ever thought I would. I feel I have finally breached that plane of existence where I can look past all the obstacles and see my life's goals clearly. It's just taking me much longer than anticipated to reach them. It's like trying to run in water or thick mud (depending on the physical and/or mental pain level of the day). The prize is coming into view. Even if the day is foggy now, I have focus. I know I will reach my dream with patience and time.